Do you have a secret hobby of people watching? You know, you like to watch people (in a suttle way) and then try to figure out why they act like they do. Well, I had some fun tonight with my son, Benjamin. We rung a bell for a well-known charity. I bundled up warmly. (Benjamin not so much, so he would have to retreat to the car or store at times.) We would be friendly to people visiting the discount store. As I watched people I wondered to what extent they would feel guilty as they passed our kettle. Some people would be on our side of the parking lot but would walk to the other side of the store to go in. I tried to act friendly but not lay a guilt trip on them by looking at them too much. Bell ringing is enjoyable to me. I like to observe the people, fit in a kind word whenever possible and be thankful when they donate. Benjamin and I enjoyed ourselves. Benjamin said a lady that asked him if he was cold, later came by and donated several folded bills. He said people donate more if they think you’re cold.
I can’t wait to do it again.